Top 10 Advantages of Arrange Marriage

Top 10 Advantages of Arrange Marriage


Marriage creates a relationship where the two souls meets, supports each other and stays together in their toughest times. Generations ago, brides and grooms would be arranged to be married by their families with little or no say. Sometimes the bride and groom would not even see each other until the wedding day! But the arranged marriage of today allows for a brief courting period and approval by the boy and girl!

So let us look some of the top advantages of arrange marriages.

10. The marriages is well-planned

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Go east or west, you will always be delighted to see the rituals performed at wedding ceremony. Parents make lots of efforts in order to get perfect match for their son or daughter. When they are able to hit the right node, they make marvelous arrangements which the two cherish throughout your life. All those rituals have certain meanings associated and are done with a purpose. The couple performs them to live a happy and prosperous life.

9. Offers Time and Space

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We all need time and space in any relationship. The arrange marriage offers these to both the side. They try to win heart of each other by not encroaching upon the space or crossing any limit until the both side agrees. Because of this, both the individuals are able to connect emotionally with each other.

 8. Respect and Equality

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Love is not the only element to make any relation successful. You must have respect for your partner and sense of equality. These two are of paramount importance for any person to stay in relationship like marriage. Being a family person, you tend to give respect to all member of family and so to your life partner. Since the bride and groom comes from similar background, they are equal in all respect. So this equality does not burden them to practice something which they don’t believe and want.

7. Strong bond with the Family

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Well they say, “you not only marry the person but the family as well”. Since the nuptial has been arranged with the family consent, there is a constant family support in case of arranged marriage. Even if things go wrong after marriage, either at economic front or personal front, the efforts from family side tend to keep things in harmony. These all in turn creates a strong bond between you and your family members as wells as the two families of couple.

6. Raising Children becomes more Easier

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There are obviously no two opinions in how to raise their child. Since the couple share similar values, culture and tradition, the child learns the same. The children are supervised by close family members, making them comfortable. Not to mention, you can always count on your grandparents to baby sit your child in your absence.

 5. Lesser Expectations

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This is something I strongly believe that love marriage comes with a lot of expectations in its basket. Love, alone is quite vulnerable in nature. Fights and arguments can easily affect it. In case of love marriage, the two people seek for satisfaction in all situations and barely compromise for most of the cases. Unlike this, in arrange marriages, the expectations are less and so they can easily adjust with each other and nurture their relationship into a strong bond.

4.  Give rise to lasting Love

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Since the couple first develops mutual understanding and respect for each other, the love which then grows is something that is unbreakable and lasts forever. It is true that both persons are almost stranger to each other before getting into relationship but after marrying, these two people start feeling for each other. With the passages of time love, trust and affection become visible in the relationship.

 3. Stronger Commitment

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Though love might take some time to develop in some cases, but there is sense of commitment which is priority for both. They try to keep the promises they make before God in all possible ways. This commitment often helps in adjustment of the couple with their life. They try not to hurt each other through their action or words, and support each other throughout the life no matter how unfavorable a situation may become.

2. No Compatibility Issues

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The arrange marriage take place generally when the bride and groom belong to same culture, similar upbringing, speak same language, and raised in more or less similar socio-economic class. These identical backgrounds help the two to communicate freely and understand each other. The conflicts are minimized and sorted (if there is any) with their mutual understanding.

1. The idea of divorce is Unthinkable

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This is something you will have to agree. The idea of separation evolves faster in case of love marriages. That is why most of the love marriages fail. Most of the arrange marriages are not force. Parents understand that the two can go for divorce if they are unable to click. So they try to find the best suitor for their wards. The combination, therefore, of the parents’ wisdom and consent of the child would lead to a happier union so divorce would be unlikely. Besides, since the two sides consider their families an integral part of their life, they don’t want their families to be questioned.  So, the concept of divorce often becomes irreconcilable.

 

 

 

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