For all of us who have a young brother or sister or both, well, life is incomplete without them! When you have grown up with them, you know what life is like. All the fun moments, family outings, birthdays, parties, saving each other’s ass, we have done it all. Your little partner has been real faithful, and you are out of ways to make her feel special or happy? Well, here are 10 easy ways  to make sure, this bond lasts forever.

10. The campus name

Having an elder bro/sis in is always better because of the protection one gets. Make sure that whenever there is some major problem, you are there for your siblings. For those of you who are in the same school, be there for them when they need you, maybe to protect them from bullies. A lot of help is at hand from everyone around when the big bro/sis is a name in school. But that does not mean you don’t let them deal with their own problems, just make sure the situation doesn’t get out of hand. Just your being there is a great moral support.

9. Parents v/s Us

While growing up, we all have had our share of moments at home, where we wished for someone of the same generation to understand our viewpoint. Well, for your siblings, you are always there. They might need help in making dad agree for a late night out or ask mom for some extra cash. In such situations, and where you think they are correct, help and support. What could be better than your little sister going out a little late but she is assured that her brother will pick her up. The parents are much easily convinced when you have a support system, and once you do it for them, they will automatically be there for you!

8. Hanging out and having fun!

It’s usually our friends who are on our priority list, and most of the free time we have is spent outside, catching a movie or hanging out with a big group of friends. At home, we are constantly on our phones or on the computer, busy with our own lives. The siblings are busy with their own work, but they might love it if you take some time out and spend with them. It can be a conversation over a cup of coffee, or take them out for lunch. Spend time with them, know what’s going on in their lives. This makes the bond stronger and you become a really awesome elder bro/sis.

7. Grow up

Having fights with your siblings is common, and some fights are essential. After all, you get angry at the person you love. But, don’t hurt them too much. Don’t be rude and bring up past memories to embarrass them further. You might have felt bad when your little brother didn’t listen to what you said and ended up wrong, but it’s okay. No need to make him/her feels that they are not doing anything or don’t know anything. Don’t gossip about them with your friends or cousins, or be ready for revenge. After all, you all are the same flesh and blood

6. Listen and explain

There are various new discoveries in life, especially when one is a teenager. Being the elder one, make sure your siblings feel free to talk to you about anything and everything, something they might not be comfortable with your parents. Drugs, sex, body changes, feelings, emotions of love, crushes and heartbreaks, and similar things, be easy to approach. Understand what they think, listen to them, their viewpoint, and then respond. If you think what they are doing is wrong, explain why is it so. Just don’t force your opinion, or threaten to complain to the elders.

5. No competition

At all times, no one is equal. You might be excellent at studies, but not your younger sister. She might be an excellent artist, or a sportsperson, or might still be confused. Don’t ever let competition come between you and your siblings, because this is something which can worsen your lives and have after affects.  Help them believe in themselves, and give motivation. On the other hand, don’t be jealous of their achievements!

4. Spend on your siblings

When in need of money, and your sibling can’t ask your dad, make sure you are there. From time to time, get them gifts or a little something, so that they know you care. It’s not about the money, it’s about always being there. In case of emergencies, they should be able to ask you for help. Birthdays and other occasions, make them feel special and lucky to have an elder one like you!

3. Treat them as equals

Even if you are 2 years elder to your brother, do not constantly remind him of that. Don’t boss around on your siblings, and they will love you forever. Especially in public, do not ridicule them or make them feel inferior, listen to their opinion, it might be correct.

2. Scold them too!

Loving and understanding your siblings is important, but another important role of a elder bro/ sis is to scold them when they are wrong and they are not agreeing to it. It is important to make them understand that you can act like the elder one when required, and it’s all done to protect them.

1. Last but not the least!

First and foremost, to become the best elder bro/sis in the world in the eyes of your sibling, love them unconditionally. Keep them happy, understand and support

Cheers to sibling love!