10 Ways Couples Make Others Uncomfortable

10 Ways Couples Make Others Uncomfortable


Most grown up man or a woman is usually in a relationship either married, yet to get married or still in love stage. When couples start out being together and as they get deeper into their relationship, most tend to show their feelings through various actions and some of those actions are open in a public place and when along with family and friends. The things couples do can be uncomfortable and annoying to those around them, though the pair might not know themselves or they just do not care. Well, we all like to be social and show others how much gifted we are in having a wonderful person for a significant other, but crossing its limits can make the people around you feel awkward. Here is a list of top 10 things which a couple do, making others feel uncomfortable. Any action out of love is acceptable as long the situation and the place calls for it.

10. Calling with romantic(funny) nicknames

Nicknames

Some couples choose to call their significant other with nicknames such as “Bunny”, “Muffin”, “cupcake” and so many other names. It seems like either the one calling wants to eat the other live or just want to cuddle up like a baby. Listening to such names can be really uncomfortable for others, because it could be hilarious and funny, yet one cannot laugh as it can be rude.

9. Showing off as perfect couples

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A relationship always has its ups and downs and there is no one in this world without a single fight once in a while. But there are some couples who try to project as if they are the best couples one could ever find and they try to be so polite and understanding with each other claiming, they are the best of the best always. In truth many such couples cannot stand each other sight and they hardly can talk nicely behind the closed doors of their homes. People always know the kind of vibes passing between the couples, and at such a time it makes the others feel awkward. So just be normal and go on with life as it comes. There is nothing perfect in this world.

8. Doing same things and together always

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When we are in a group, the idea of being there is to spend some time with all. To know others, have fun, meet new people or enjoy the company of the old. But some couples, tend to be attached to each other without being separated. For example, when in a gathering, this couple comes to meet all, who are a mutual friends and yet they act like they want to sit next to each other only, hold hands, one goes to get something-other also goes, one dislike to eat something-other also do not eat and so on. Another kind of couple, who wants to tag along their significant other as well, to a friends gathering where the significant other is a total stranger. In such situation friends and families, who also want to talk and spend time with one of the pair can feel it uncomfortable.

7. Kissing each other

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One of the most annoying way is kissing in a public place. A simple peck on the cheek or lips just to show your love and affection is mostly acceptable by all and sometimes adorable too but there are some couples who start kissing each other deep into a French style without caring who watches them. We see such couples everywhere in parks, in movies, parties, office, restaurants and yet when you are sitting in front of them it gets uncomfortable and you might want to go away and give them space, yet you cannot, knowing it can be rude.

6. Holding hands and touching

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Well, for some love is always in the air and they like to hold their hands or have some kind of contact with each other often. Although the couple might not realize what they might be doing, the audience, who can be your friends and families looking at you can feel it very awkward to be around. Dear couples, know your surroundings and the kind of people you are with and act accordingly. Your significant other is going nowhere!

5. Looking at each other and more gestures

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It is a smart act of conveying through eyes and facial gestures about what you are thinking to your significant other and if the other seems to understand you. But if a couple always talk through their eyes and gestures, over a period of time that too can be uncomfortable for those who spend more time along. There is this another kind of couple who likes to look at each other all the time over a conversation when there are others as well. People are comfortable when couples are a normal happy go pair rather being unusual and weird.

4. Fighting louder

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When there is an argument within a couple, anger makes them mute to their surroundings. While some couples show their love in strange places, some show their differences, which both ways can be awkward for others. Some couples can be very verbal and dramatic making all others feel very uneasy. Well, though all knows the couple will be laughing with each other in no time, yet such an act can spoil the moment for others too.

3. Acting like strangers

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Anything extreme can be uncomfortable and annoying. Of course, there is no one perfect and difference in opinions is a common thing with couples. Couples usually like to show their anger sometimes by acting like strangers as though they do not know each other just to avoid talking. Sure we all have such fights with our significant others as well, but it can be uncomfortable when a couple acts strangers with each other while someone is trying to talk to both knowing they are together.

2. Making each other eat

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No! I’ am not talking about a baby instead a couple who seem to have forgotten that they are in the company of known people. This couple while in an eating place and along with few friends or family, out of blue starts giving food from their spoons to their significant others or better yet, they eat in one single plate. Well, feeding food to each other is a gesture of love for sure, but seriously! Is it required when in a company of different people? Such an act can make others around feel uncomfortable.

1. Miss you calls and messages

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Wanting your significant other with you when you are away for long is a most common feeling among couples and it is natural to get in touch with the person you love now and then. But there are some couples who make all the others around them feel uncomfortable in the way they express their feelings of missing their significant others for a shorter time. Some couples keep texting the entire time as “miss you” and “love you” as well as with endless phone calls when in office, a public meeting or any other place which is only for a little while. What’s more, they even keep brooding, sad and aloof from others. Well, others might feel if you really wanted to be together with your significant other why did you even come anyway?

Hence couples, sure you are blessed having found a person whom you love and who loves you back, but it is also important to be alert and aware about the kind of place you choose to show your love and affection as that someone else with you is also important and do not make him or her decide to choose against your company the next time you all want to meet.

  • Shalini Prasad

    Enjoyed reading this and contemplating.

  • Kavitha Uday

    good article. could get some points to think over as i’m not aware of.