There are certain traits that define a Man and that most women would agree upon. It’s not about how good he looks, how tall or how fair he is. What’s important is, the butterflies that you get in your belly when you see him and the fireworks in daylight! It’s rightly said that physical attraction can be with anyone, but a mental attraction is what holds the spark alive. A guy looks all the more attractive with these qualities.

10. Cleanliness

Imagine going into a room with pizza boxes lying on the table, clothes spread everywhere and shoes thrown on the floor!Would you ever enter such a place? Err, No, a person who cannot keep his house in order will find it difficult to do the same with his place or for that matter , work life. Laziness is not an excuse, one must take pride and responsibility of where they live.

9. Well-groomed

Well, no we aren’t saying he should look like Tom Cruise, but little attention to his look and hygiene won’t harm. It does not make you less of a man, only helps in defining your style and personality, something that people notice first about you. It does not require costly of brands in your closet, but keeping your attire well kept and organized and most importantly, clean. A man must take pride in his style and personality that makes him stand out.

8. Money

A real human race does not believe in charity and leaving the matters on destiny, in fact he believes in slugging it away and accomplishing the desired goals with his own arduous work and at the same time learns to be grounded. He is not the one who would live his life on family money, he would go out to prove himself and make a living, yet he would be gentle enough to thank the lady love in his life. The idea is to take your family inheritance and increase it 10 times than what it was! A man carves out a place for himself and becomes independent in the process.

7. Man of his words

Why do we say a gentleman’s promise? It’s because a real man knows to keep his promises. It he cannot keep up the promise he doesn’t give his word. Since he believes to face severe hardships rather breaking the promise and letting down the opposite person. Every man must know that likewise his actions, his words have an impactful effect. And most important, he must be honest with his words.

6. Focused

At some point; we all seem to be distracted in our lives. This in turn results in focusing on things that are not important and investing precious time and resources on irrelevant subjects. We all love living wild, but after a point it is necessary to draw some lines and bring in control. It is important to have a clear direction and avoid any obstacle that comes in our way. This makes you a reliable person for near and dear ones.

5. Romantic

Blame it on those childhood fairy tales, but we all want our man to be nothing less than a prince charming! Nothing too flashy, but small heartfelt gestures, little surprises’ and the way he looks at you. Someone who knows if you have a had a tied up week and offers to spend time with you with a relaxing evening and a perfect meal cooked by him and not buys you a spa voucher and sends you going!

4.  “available”.

Not just physically, but also mentally and emotionally. It’s important to have time for your loved ones to know them better and to offer them the desired love and care. He should be ready to give time and nurture different relationships in his life. It’s a wonderful feeling to know that someone is just a call away whenever you need to talk it out and feel the caring bear hug.

3. He should be open-minded

Your man should of the habit of seeing broader perspectives of things, not someone who is stubborn with his thinking and is of the nature of imposing his beliefs onto others. He must accept your differences without trying to change anything about you. Every woman wants his man to be a good listener. While he throws a right to put forth his beliefs, he must possess the patience to discover out the opposite person and understand their position.

2. No Gossip

Nobody wants a man for themselves who acts like the neighbourhood gossip aunt. A man would not be respected if in order to be among a circle of friends is the hotline for recent gossips around. The image of a strong, silent and well behaved man is still preferred by women, rather than a gossip man who has nothing better to do.

1. A mentor in disguise! 

Life with others could become quite monotonous if there is nothing interesting about each other to learn. Hence, the saying opposite attracts! It could be a lesson as small as how to bake cake or trying hand at bungee jumping or a big one like, trying to be a better human being by learning from the qualities of your spouse.